Frequently I remind myself as I remind others, that we have a responsibility to take these youngsters under our wings, to help them realize that they do have intellectual talents.
– Ben Carson
All of us need to have someone say to us, “You can do it. You can achieve.” Words like these empowering us about the important and valuable laws of successful living, the power of positive thinking. I remember in my childhood I always fall back on my parents when the going becomes tough. Luckily enough my parents were both still alive. My parents provide me with love, comfort, encouragement and protection against the impact of the outer world. On approaching adulthood children must struggle to become responsible, self-reliant and to find solutions to their daily problems. The parents may only shield them, guide them and caution them against repeating mistakes.
Teenagers want to be independent. Parents must train their children in facing life's challenges by themselves. For example, it’s very rewarding and satisfying for a teenager to make use of public transport. They are thus enabled to learn, and to overcome difficulties on their way to and from school, instead of being picked up and dropped every day. Parents also need to encourage their teenage children in their work, challenging them to do a better job next time. For example, I love the way how Sonia Carson was encouraging her son Ben Carson, author of Think Big, and The Big Picture, during his childhood: “Ben, you are a smart boy. I want to see you using that smartness,” “Ben, you become whatever you want to be in this life if you are willing to work at it.”
Children's ability to act correctly and wisely in the face of newly acquired responsibility and freedom does not come to them ready-made. Their growing abilities emerge as a result of childhood experiences. They have learnt by doing, watching and practicing. They also learn a lot about life from books, TV and films. Their religious formation and doctrine also exert greater influence in helping them develop their personal code and establish a frame of reference for taking decisions.
All children, regardless of their age, pick parents as their number one role model. It is natural for a child to imitate and assume the attitude and the ways of the parents later in life. Parents with a positive approach towards life automatically transmit confidence and assurance to their children. Parents who pass to their children negative attitude towards life instill in them fear of failure and unwillingness to spend their energies in worthwhile endeavors.
What can parents learn from this? Recognize your place as a significant role model in both healthy and unhealthy habits. It is your responsibility to encourage your children to aim higher than where their friends aim. Parents must patiently point out to them the advantages of the way of life they stand for.
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